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Find Lasting Love Using Feng Shui

August 12th, 2008 Author: Candace

If you’ve already found the love of your life, you’re one of the lucky ones. Many people search for years for the kind of love you already have.

But if you’re still in the searching process, there are plenty of ways you can use Feng Shui to help you meet the perfect person for your life. After all, you don’t want to attract just anyone.

You want to meet the person who’s perfect in your eyes.

Attracting Positive Energies

The first step to finding Mr. or Mrs. Right is to begin to identify who this person is. While you don’t want to have an exact picture in your mind of the person that you MUST meet, you should have some sort of idea as to what they might be like.

You might want to start by creating a list of the things you want your perfect date and love to have.

This can include:

  • A good sense of humor
  • A kind heart
  • A love of children/pets/NASCAR/etc.
  • Money
  • A successful career
  • Etc.

Take this list and put this in your relationship corner of your bedroom. The list doesn’t have to be large enough for anyone to read, so long as you know what’s on it, so don’t afraid of the next step.

You want to hang this list on the wall or place it on a table that’s sitting in that corner. This will help you to increase the energy of the qualities that you want in a date and in a relationship.

The relationship corner is located in the far right corner of your rooms.

Other tips to help encourage love in your life include:

  • Remove sharp corners in your bedroom – Since the bedroom if really the center of your lover energy, make sure that you don’t have any areas that come to points. To prevent this, soften the corners of your bedroom by placing plants in the corners or other items that help to cut these corners off.
  • Make sure you can see your door from bed – If you can’t see your doorway from your bed, you might be decreasing the energy of your search for love. You want to always be able to ’see’ the energy entering your life, even as you sleep.
  • Add softer colors to your room – If your room is filled with bright yellows and oranges, even some reds are too energetic, not only will you have troubles sleeping, but you might also have troubles with attracting love rather than lust. Choose soothing colors, but nothing that’s too feminine or flowery. Simple is the keyword in this adjustment.

Now that you have stirred up the energy of love in your bedroom, it’s time to see what else you can do with this energy once you head out into the dating world.

Dating and Feng Shui

Unfortunately, even Feng Shui isn’t going to bring dates to your doorstep. So, in order to meet the love of your life, you’re going to have to start dating.

Since you’ve increased the energy of love in your life at this point, adding these dating specific Feng Shui adjustments will help you create the perfect conditions for long term connections.

  • Add pictures of couples to your relationship corner – Now, these pictures don’t have to include you in them. In fact, it’s better to find pictures of couples whose faces aren’t visible. This way, you’re not directing the energy too much to one certain situation.
  • Bring beauty into your life - Make sure to add fresh flowers to your relationship corner as much as possible. This will enhance the energy of beauty in those that you meet. When you place the flowers in the corner, give yourself gratitude for trying to find love and tell yourself that you will be successful.
  • Consider adding pink to the relationship corner – While this tends to be seen as an overly feminine color, there are shades of pink that can be downright seductive and alluring, even in a man’s bedroom. Try adding these colors to your relationship corner as well as to your bedroom, if you can.
  • Move your bedroom – If your bedroom isn’t in the relationship corner of your home or apartment, you might want to consider moving it. This will not only stir up new energy, but it will also help you encourage the energy of love and romance as you will be in the energetic center of luck in love.
  • Clear away old relationships – Most of us have some mementos of past relationships that we keep. But if these mementos are in your bedroom, they might be interfering with your ability to reach out for something new in your love life. Try to remove these things from your bedroom, and ideally from your home. After all, these relationships are over and done with – you want something new.
  • Be thankful for each new meeting – Instead of beating yourself up at the end of each date when you don’t find Prince Charming or Mrs. Right, you should come back to your bedroom, look over the list of things you want in a love match, and breathe. Thank yourself for the fact that you were brave enough to try to find you.

Love is out there waiting for you, but if you don’t stir up the pot of love energy, you might have to kiss a lot of frogs before you get to the prince or princess.

Why not skip the frogs entirely?

For all the Feng Shui Cures You Need for Finding Lasting Love check out this link:

http://www.artofplacement.com/FengShui/LoveProsperityKits.htm

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