Are you in Alignment with your Goals and Dreams?
I was talking with a frustrated friend today about why they are having such a difficult time achieving their goals and dreams. As is often the case it is much easier for someone else to see the forest when you are focusing on the trees.
What I mean by this is that when you identify something in your life that you don’t like the tendency is to focus on that thing that you want to remove. The problem with this is that what you focus on is what you create.
Here is an example of how to get into alignment with what you really want.
If you desperately are looking to get out of debt it seems like that is all that you can see, debt. Now, looking at the debt everyday or even several times a day just leaves you feeling depressed, besides looking at it every day does not change the debt.
Now this will take a little discipline but when you get it down you will be on your way to living the life you truly desire.
I suggest a mental filing system. When your issue comes to the fore front or even to the back of you mind, ask yourself…Self…is there anything I can do about this right now or even today? If the answer is yes do it and then set a calendar time for follow up. If not set a time on your calendar when you can do something about it. When it comes back to your mind, remind yourself that you are scheduled to think about it again only at the scheduled time and not before..
Now what is important is that when that scheduled time arrives you address this issue. If there is something you can do about it do if not re-schedule it.
Scheduling your worry time, limits the amount of time that you worry so that you are free to be happy and create from this place of happiness. Instead of spending most of our time in worry you will find that you are spending more in alignment with what you truly want in life. The more time you spend in alignment the faster you will arrive at living the life you desire.
Try it….it works!
Dear Candace,
If the answer is no when I ask my self, I cannot do anything right now to resolve x problem or situation, would the following steps should be as in a yes answer?
By the way, I’m practicing everything you say and is working for me, thank you very much.
Christina
July 18th, 2009 | #
I’m at the bottom of the pit. I don’t know how worse life can get! Lost my job,my girl friend,family turned on me, about to lose my house, about to run out of money!!yes my life is that bad. Only a mircale from God can save me. Thanks Jerry. I’ve been try feng shui for 6+ years but NOTHING.
July 19th, 2009 | #