You can feng shui the interior of your mind to help you get into alignment with your goals and dreams. Â Let me show you how I do it!
I was talking with a frustrated friend today about why they are having such a difficult time achieving their goals and dreams. As is often the case it is much easier for someone else to see the forest when you are focusing on the trees.
What I mean by this is that when you identify something in your life that you don’t like the tendency is to focus on that thing that you want to remove. The problem with this is that what you focus on is what you create.
Here is an example of how to get into alignment with what you really want.
If you desperately are looking to get out of debt it seems like that is all that you can see, debt. Now, looking at the debt everyday or even several times a day just leaves you feeling depressed, besides looking at it every day does not change the debt.
Now this will take a little discipline but when you get it down you will be on your way to living the life you truly desire.
I suggest a mental filing system. When your issue comes to the fore front or even to the back of you mind, ask yourself…Self…is there anything I can do about this right now or even today? If the answer is yes do it and then set a calendar time for follow up. If not set a time on your calendar when you can do something about it. When it comes back to your mind, remind yourself that you are scheduled to think about it again only at the scheduled time and not before..
Now what is important is that when that scheduled time arrives you address this issue. If there is something you can do about it do if not re-schedule it.
Scheduling your worry time, limits the amount of time that you worry so that you are free to be happy and create from this place of happiness. Instead of spending most of our time in worry you will find that you are spending more in alignment with what you truly want in life. The more time you spend in alignment the faster you will arrive at living the life you desire.
Try it….it works!
Dear Candace,
If the answer is no when I ask my self, I cannot do anything right now to resolve x problem or situation, would the following steps should be as in a yes answer?
By the way, I’m practicing everything you say and is working for me, thank you very much.
Christina
I’m at the bottom of the pit. I don’t know how worse life can get! Lost my job,my girl friend,family turned on me, about to lose my house, about to run out of money!!yes my life is that bad. Only a mircale from God can save me. Thanks Jerry. I’ve been try feng shui for 6+ years but NOTHING.
Jerry…. you’re still thinking, talking, focusing on what you feel is bad in your life! Therefore still attracting exactly that to your life!
I don’t know what you have or haven’t tried, but you need to start with a list of everything you have and are thankful for, then a second list of what you “will” manifest into your life… read it and believe (really believe) it, every day – two or three times or more if need be! Live with a smile and like you have it made – and you will!
For example:
you have your home
you have your health
you have love in your heart
you have food to fill your needs
keep making this list
your excited for your finances
your excited for your true love to enter your life
keep writing this list as well… Then read it again and again – believe it, you will manifest this life for yourself!
Good Morning Candace,
Just help!!!! I’ve been outof work for two years, now I want ot be home and work from home, need start up capitol. Owe debt up to ear lobes and always seem to have money going out and nothing coming in. Soon we will be in trouble of losing everything. Nothing I have tried works. Love Feng Shui but have NO money to do alot of the cures.
Jerry…I am at the bottom with you!!! I need a miracle to help me climb out of the pit. I am willing to do the work, I just need a little boost right now and no one pushing me back down!
Candance – GREAT tip! Thanks.
Jerry–Things will get better. You are just experiencing a huge purge. You must clear the slate so that the right things will come into your life. Please believe. I know it is hard.
The reason Jerry is drawing blanks with his Feng Shui is because he is not intending it.
Our intentions must be 100 percent on what we want to manifest. Bottom of a Pit, worse life can get, lost, turned on me,lose, run out, that bad, NOTHING. Change your thought’s, and you change your world. Start thinking twice more before reacting, every time you think or say I’m at the bottom of the pit, you are manifesting more of being at the bottom of the pit. Instead you might say : I desire to be more successful at everything I do. It’s that simple, just pay attention to what you are thinking.
Love and Blessings,
Dan Fagan
Fullblown Feng Shui
Jerry, My heart goes out to you 🙁 certainly not judging you by any means. Please consider this: No one can BELIEVE for you. You can think positive thoughts and create a perfect feng shui environment, but if you do not believe you DESERVE the good things that want to come, then you will continue to create what you already have.
Wanda,
Right on!
I have worse habit of unnecessary shopping, I am not sure how my calender will work and help me to avoid this habit. Some things i keep on buying are not the requiremnents but I just get attracted to them I do save money as well. I need to develop more self control. any help?
The art of feng shui and law of attraction…they go hand in hand and it’s all about getting the right mindset. Focus on things that upset you will only magnify it. So simply go focus what you want maybe hard at first but you’ll get use to it. It works for me all the time. Good luck.