Relationship Help
Get some relationship help with feng shui. Â No matter how long you’ve been in a relationship with someone, chances are good that you’re going to hit some speed bumps once in a while.
You’re not always going to click and you might have more troubles than you thought possible. After all, you were so perfect together in the beginning, weren’t you?
But things change.
In order to weather these rough patches, you need to utilize Feng Shui right now.
Is Your Relationship Under the Weather?
When your relationship is already having troubles, you want to make sure you are doing all that you can to change the energy.
The truth is that you probably already realize that your energy is off. In fact, you’ve probably been feeling this for a few months, but that doesn’t mean either of you have admitted it.
Whether you’ve been together for weeks or for months, here are some ways to balance yourself again:
- Clean out your relationship clutter – You want to start off by making sure your relationship area (the far back right hand corner of your rooms) is clear of junk. If you’re storing piles of mess there, chances are good that your relationship is feeling pretty messy too.
- Buy a plant to nurture – When you are feeling like your relationship might be stagnating or that your relationship is simply not clicking the way it used to, you might want to spend a little more time cultivating health and growth. Purchase a plant of your choosing to add to the relationship areas of your home. Then take care of that plant, focusing your energy into not only the plant, but also the way you see your relationship.
- Get rid of singular images – If you’re filling your relationship space with things that come in ones, you’re not enhancing the energy of couples and partnerships. You want to remove anything that might be increase the ‘single’ mindset. Instead, try to have two pictures up, two candles, etc.
- Remove anything that might be broken – If your relationship corner has a broken clock or radio in it, chances are good you are attracting the energy of things that are broken. And what good is that doing your relationship? Try instead to fix items that are broken or get rid of them entirely.
- Remove reminders of bad times – If you like to hang onto mementos of your relationship, it might be time to weed through these items and remove anything that reminds you of a fight or of a struggle you’ve had. This way, you can hold onto only the positive things and remember those good times when you’re feeling overwhelmed by your troubles.
- Open up a window in your bedroom – At least once a week, try opening up the windows in your bedroom to make sure you are bringing in new and clean energy. This will help to unstuck any energy that is problematic, while also helping you to move around new energy and air for breathing room in your problems.
As you begin to realize that you have to do some work in order to make your relationship better again, you will come up with more ways to alter your environment with Feng Shui – almost intuitively.
For example:
- Remove bright colors from your bedroom – When there’s too much energy in your bedroom, it can wreak havoc on your relationship. Try toning things down with muted colors and patterns.
- Become more gender neutral – You don’t want to have a bedroom that’s too feminine or too masculine. Try to strike a better balance in your room in order to create balance between the two of you. This is a great project to do together as you can work on communicating about what you like and what you need to make your room feel more like ‘yours.’
- Buy new bed sheets – If you want to make a fresh start, it never hurts to bring in completely new energy. Try buying new bed sheets together to see how this changes the way you feel about the relationship. By buying them together, you will be performing a task as a team that works toward better days.
Your relationship is going to be a work in progress for its entire duration, but this doesn’t mean you have to simply wait out your troubles.
You can make changes right now to help your energy and your communication.
Maintaining Your Relationship
Once you’ve roughed the tough spots, you want to do things to keep your relationship going strong.
Maintaining a good relationship is easier than working on problems, so this part is easy. Here are some ways to keep the love and the romance alive and well.
- Store up your good times – Create a photo album with pictures of you two doing fun things. This will help you encourage the addition of more and more happy days. Place this album in the relationship area of your home and review it at least once a week together.
- Keep your bedroom clean – By taking the time each day to clean up your bedroom, you will continue to keep the energy ‘clean’ and calm. Just making the bed and picking up clutter from the floor will make a dramatic difference.
- Keep your bedroom door open – Leaving the door open when you’re not in the room lets you always be circulating new possibilities and energy in your love life. When you want your relationship to last long term, this is an easy way to keep things moving.